Sunday, May 25, 2008

Sexy School Uniform

"Sexy ke?"
Image taken from The Star

When I first read the comment voiced by the Vice President of National Islamic Students Association of Malaysia, Munirah Bahari concerning our schoolgirl uniform, I somewhat have to agree when she said,“The white blouse is too transparent for girls". Ingat tak movie Azura, starring Ogy n Jamal Abdillah? Scene di mana Azura kena halau dengan dari rumah sebab bercinta dgn Zack, hujan lebat, Azura pakai baju kurung sekolah, Azura basah lencun. Aku kecik lagi waktu tengok movie tu tapi sampai sekarang boleh ingat babak Azura seksi. Hehe.. kecik2 dah gatal ;p

And for myself, I still remember one time when I was around 11 or 12 years old... A group of friends consist of 2 boys and a girl insisted to follow me home after school. Tak berani nak ajak masuk, kitorang lepak je kat luar rumah. But I was not aware that someone was watching. Orang gaji aku, yang sememangnya sangat penyebok, rupe-rupenye bersembunyi di belakang langsir and was ear dropping each and every word of our conversations. When my friends left, she started membebel panjang and her words I remember most was, "Kak Long tau tak, budak laki tu asyik tengok baju dalam Kak Long." Cheh!! Memang dasar penyebok! Tapi aku perasan jugak sebenarnya mamat tu asyik menjeling2. Tension betul! Nak kata boobs factor, I don't think so la sebab masa tu my chest was still flat like an iron board! But I guess what attracted him was my lace-elaborated white camisole, which was clearly visible under the white school uniform. Was it fair to label him a pervert? Or was he just behaving like every other school boys? If you ask me, I would choose the latter as my answer, and put the whole blame on my sheer white baju sekolah.

But then again, as much as I wanted to agree with Ms Munirah, I find that her full statement in her blog to be quite disturbing. First of all, men were insulted when she said “Di sinilah punca yang boleh kita saksikan bahawa pelajar perempuan itu sendiri mempunyai daya tarikan supaya lelaki mendekatinya. Oleh itu terjadilah perkara-perkara seperti pencabulan, penzinaan dan sebagainya” because clearly here, men were portrayed as mindless creatures with uncontrollable sexual urges. Secondly, she was wrong to stress that the schoolgirls were the one who lure themselves into being rape or sexually harassed because the well known fact is a perpetrator choose his victim based on vulnerability, not the victim's attire. Thirdly, about the pre-marital sex thingy, ehem... lets just say that kalau dah gatal tu, gatal juge. Didikan lebih berkesan dari memaksa seseorang menukar pakaiannya. And finally, I find it outrageous bile cik kak ni kata sikap pelajar perempuan yang tidak tegas menjadikan mereka mangsa cabul. Wah.. sangat nak marah dengar komen ittew ok!

Now, with all that been said, marilah kita menimbangkan semula cadangan Ms Munirah kita supaya "Kementerian boleh menukar baju putih kepada baju berwarna kerana ia tampak sesuai dan tidak jarang untuk dipakai oleh pelajar perempuan". Whether we like it or not, we cannot deny the fact that coloured uniform is definitely less transparent than white. If not, why some school make camisole compulsory for girls kan? So, if not white... what colour should it be then? If you ask me, I'll be more than happy to suggest grey school uniform (think international school student). Very cute, aren't they? And most importantly, less transparent.

Dan sebagai penutup dan peringatan kepada diri sendiri, ingatlah bahawa menutup aurat itu suruhan Allah kerana tiada yang lebih mengetahui melainkan Dia. Wallahualam...

9 comments:

Aku A-Z-Z-U said...

ahaa...baru nak menulis ttg perkare ni, kekek. kazu rase isu baju kurung ni sgt bizzare, sbb dah berzaman2 budak2 sekolah menengah pakai baju kurung ni. skarang baru nak keco2? :D

Azury said...

Nak kecoh takde hal, yang bengkek tu sebab dia kata baju warna putih merupakan salah satu sebab berlaku macam2 kekejaman dan maksiat terhadap budak2 sekolah. Bio beno?

Aku A-Z-Z-U said...

tu le bangang diorang tu. sedangkan yg bertudung labuh pon ade kes kene rogol. takkan nak cakap tudung labuh pon seksi kot? semuanya nak salahkan mangsa. dah la mangsa yg kene, mangsa lagi salah. ntah ape2 la.

aisyah said...

agree nye ngan azzu (nih kak azzu as in kak ipar azury tu ke..?)
anyways.. asek2 nak blame mangsa. cube la tackle in a different angle plak. utk minah2 yg miang (yg kes suke2 naik moto mat2 moto yg suit kat depa, lelast kene rogol).. pasal tu, aku rase padan muke ko sbb xkan x dapat pikir org cenggitu memang tgh horny dik oii..
tapi sian la yg innocent tuh...
butt.. kalau nak kate sebab baju sekolah.. huh? for real? well azury, maybe this person is trying VERY hard to think out of the box.. hahahah (makin inside the box aku rase)

Azury said...

Baru lepas baca blog Munirah Bahari. Kesian plak kat minah ni, kena kutuk kaukau giler! Intention dia baik, tapi malangnya ilmu tak cukup. By the way, I still support the change of our school uniform colour. Tak faham kenapa orang defend sangat warna putih ni. Ada sorang mamat ni kata baju sekolah putih bagus sebab Malaysia panas, and warna putih tak menyerap haba. Ada tak sebab musabab yang convincing sket?

Yes syah, Azzu is my SIL.

Zuraimah Ismail said...

ye la azury, kak ct pun agree tukar ler baju putih ni...dah ler cepat kotornye...jarang is one thing la..tp kalo pandai pilih kain, ada gak kain putih yg x jarang..x gitu? tp bab kotor tu...huhuhu mmg elok sgt la kalo tukar kaler...;)

Aku A-Z-Z-U said...

tukar kaler hitam la, baru goth, baru my chemical romance, ekeke. last2 nanti kite tak pasti mane satu budak skola, mane satu minah arab. :D

Nuno Lady said...

zury.. love this issue... uniform is not the main reason. FYI.. I respect the japanese student more than budak2 sekolah arab macam kita ni. Even they are not muslim. They know the boundary. Selalunya susah nak nampak budak2 sekolah lelaki dan perempuan yang bersifat `sosial`. Nak kata alim tak juga kan?.. tapi tu ler.. walaupun diorang pakai skirt pendek. susah nak nampak adegan yang mencolok mata.

-fitrah

Azury said...

Kak Fit, that's something to ponder about. Kita ni kebanyakan memang 'know the boundary', tapi masih 'cross the boundary'. Didikan tak berkesan kot?