Thursday, May 14, 2009

My Baby Sisters


I realised that i seldom talked about my sisters. Well today, let me introduce you to these three lovely girls.

Miss Husna a.k.a. Budar is a 24 yrs old actuarist working in an insurance company. She's a real genius who loves to sleep, owner of a red hot myvi and hates cutting chicken.

Miss Fateha a.k.a. Teh is 23 and currently studying pharmacy in New Zealand. She's friendly, loves to study, hates reading novels and also hates cutting chicken.

Miss Siti Aisya a.k.a Aisya is 19 and just finished her matriculation. She's adorable, chatty, manja, loves to clean and likes to wear the same clothes for days. Busyuk!

Growing up, i was away from them almost all the time - i attended boarding school in seremban, university in jb, then got married immediately after graduated and later have children. Being separated for a long time, i never had the chance to bond with them like real sisters. You know, like sharing secrets and problems, that kinda stuff. I guess age difference also further this gap between us because we were never in the same phase of life, making it harder to find things in common to talk about.

As we grow older, some incidents occurred along the way and slowly... it bring us closer together.

The main one, was when Abah passed away. The excruciating pain that i felt ... was unexplainable. NOBODY, not even my husband, could understand it... except for my siblings and my mom. Only we knew how painful it was losing our Abah. And for the first time in life, i felt the need to be closer to my sisters, simply because they were the only few people i can grieve with.

Another incident, was when one of my sisters was having problems with her boyfriends. Yes, boyfriends, more than one. Her case was really complicated to be honest, and i guess out of desperation to find someone to talk to, she slowly opened up to me and we ended talking like there was no tomorrow. It was heart-wrenching to see your own sister, whom all this while seemed so tough, suddenly turned so vulnerable and heart-broken. At that time, all I wanted to do was to 'rescue' her, make her feel better and mend her wound. We still talk now and then and she almost recover, thank god. But most importantly, i'm glad she trusted me as her shoulder to cry on.

And talking about love, another one also got herself into trouble. This naughty girl got caught and was brought to 'court'. I knew she was damn scared. After the tormenting session was over, she hugged me, cried and thanked me for being there for her.

Girls, i'm more than happy to be there whenever you need me. Please know that you can forever count on me because after all, you're my baby sisters. And i love you so very much :)

6 comments:

Zuraimah Ismail said...

seronokkan if we get closer with our siblings...tak kisah la lelaki ke perempuan..:)

and get together is the most WANTED moment i want...eheheh especially kids boleh main2 with their cousin and me chitchatting with my beloved siblings..

hope the same for ya too...

ni nak dpt new baby ni, mesti diorang pun excited kan..? coz u r the only supply they have for anak buah kan? at the moment la i mean :)

Azury said...

Kak ct, anak2 saya mmg takde cousin lagi. Makcik2 dia semua kawin lambat :p But i'm really loking forward to the day when we all can gather with our kids running around. Mcm yg kak ct describe, mesti bes sgt :

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Nuisanc3 said...

selalu dok pk adik2 awak tu kecik lagi.. padahal kak teh pon dah 23, aisya pon dah 19... wa.. cptnye masa berlalu.. besar dah dorang.. and tuanya kita ini... :)

i was there the day Abah passed away, I was so touched seeing the way you hugged each and every one of them on the very day, the scene remains fresh in my mind. At that moment, I said to myself this is the kind of KakLong I've always wanted to be.

for some reason, this entry made me cry la bus... :)

Fateha said...

haha.funny.dulu saye tak reti potong chicken.now dah lame practice, saye dah pro.
well long, ive got to admit. you are the best kaklong ive ever had!!